I don't like games. I kinda like Cards against Humanity and I do play a mean scrabble but that is not what I am referring to here.
As I start to poke my toe in the dating pool I realize there are a lot of new rules that seem to have cropped up in the last few years. I am a pretty straight shooter when I start seeing someone. If there is no chemistry I simply say so. If I want to (insert your own word here since my mom reads this) you, I will tell you. I don't care about rules. I don't want to waste my time or yours.
So why is it men are still unable to respond in like? I did have a date with one man recently and we knew right away that it wasn't going anywhere. We shook hands on it and email pleasantries to each other every now and again. He is a really great guy but we got it, spoke about it and moved on as friends. Why is this so difficult? And if you want to (insert your own word here since my other mom also reads this) me, just say so. The worst that can happen is I say no thanks. No one has ever died from those words.
I am not chasing anyone. Instead I am ridding myself of the runners.
xoks
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