Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Oh NO She Didn't (said with a distinct urban African-American vernacular)

My best-friend says I am playing the victim. I will have none of that. I am not a victim here, she is right.

My relationship with my ex has been, at times, tumultuous. It has also been amazing. There is no lack of love between us. We even like each other, imagine that. But over the last month it has been very hard for us. I initiated the separation, he finalized it. There were no right or wrongs here people. We just couldn't find the middle ground.

What I feel I am expressing here is my sadness at the loss of someone I love dearly. I did not intend to come across as a victim, I won't allow myself to be a victim. I am responsible for my actions and some of those actions got us where we are. End of story.

Thanks for slapping me around Pea.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I bet He doesnt like this...
Anyway You´ve said you work with him, that sucks... how will you deal with that???